It’s one of the biggest contradictions of our time. Through technology, we’ve never been more connected. But in
reality, as many studies have shown, we’ve actually never been more disconnected.
Some have even said that we’re experiencing a loneliness epidemic. And the ramifications of that are no joke.
Research has shown that loneliness can have more of a greater negative impact on one’s health than smoking 15
cigarettes a day or being obese.
It makes sense, though, if you think about how our modern society operates.
Compared to the “old days,” we often live far away from family members and friends. But an even bigger cause of
loneliness stems from the very technology that promised to make us more connected. Instead of helping us connect, this
‘social’ technology has replaced face-to-face interaction and has led us to feel more isolated.
Clearly, the Internet doesn’t have all the answers – especially when it comes to human connectedness and forging
healthy relationships that can improve our well-being.
We need social connection. We’re social creatures, after all, and we have an innate need and desire to feel
connected to others.
“Socializing is more positive than being alone, that’s why meetings are so popular. People don’t like being alone. That would be, however, an important skill to learn…”
― Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
If you know you could use more in-person socializing in your life, we can help. Not only will you get more fit training with us, but if you talk to our members, you’ll discover we’re not just a regular, typically anti-social gym.
With us, you’ll actually get the chance to truly get to know the people you see everyday, and to forge long-lasting
friendships in the process. We’re as much a social house as we are a place to workout. Joining CTOWN will feel like
being part of a high school sports team again, minus the High School drama part of it.
We’re especially useful if you’re new to the city or single and looking for love (not that there’s anything wrong
with meeting on Tinder, of course, but sometimes meeting the old fashioned way is exciting, too).
If you’re already part of our community, but feel like you’re still buried in your phone during most of your waking
hours of the day, here are three more tips.
Tips for ensuring you get your dose of social time each day:
Join a club or sports team:
Be it a basketball, Ultimate frisbee or beach volleyball league, or a book club or pottery class, committing to a
team or club holds you accountable to follow through with your plan to engage in the real world a little more.
Find something you’re passionate about—dogs, social justice, mental health—and give back by volunteering.
When was the last time you struck up a conversation with someone at the coffee shop you visit each morning? You
might learn something new, you might gain an appreciation for simple gestures and body language, and corny as it
sounds, who knows, you might even make a friend along the way. There is something to be gained from every IN-PERSON
human interaction, and friendly social connections – even with strangers – are sure to boost your morale and outlook
Ok, one final challenge to you: As impossible as it might sound, commit to leaving your phone at home once or twice
(OK, maybe that’s TOO impossible).